My personal caregiving journey has seen me experience and successfully overcome many different obstacles. Many of you have overcome obstacles I personally have not had to deal with. We can all learn from each other. Together our knowledge is a wealth of experience unmatched by any self help book we may scour for information.

The role of being a Carer responsible for the welfare of another brings with it personal obstacles which are often unseen by the carer themselves. Relationships with the people around you will change due to your added responsibilities and their uncertainty about how to support you. Learning how to negotiate this challenge from the outset will build stronger relationships with not only family and friends, but therapists, teachers and service providers. Different situations bring different solutions so it is important to be able to share what works with each other.

Caring for the welfare of others, especially if it is a long term situation, can put us in the position of letting go of our personal goals and enjoyment of hobbies, sports and career goals. This doesn’t have to happen. Instead you can grow as a person way beyond what you would have dreamed possible. Often we don’t pursue a hobby or new adventure because we just don’t know how to begin. Others who have succeeded can help to show the way.